Language to use for objection on a point or offer:

Body Language

Possible meaning

Avoiding Eye Contact

• Lying

• Not interested

• Not telling the whole truth

Serious Eye Contact

• Trying to intimidate

• Showing anger

Touching the face/fidgeting

• Nervousness

• Lack of confidence

• Submission

Nodding

• Agreeing

• Willing to compromise

Shaking the head/turning away

• Frustrated

• In disbelief

• Disagreeing with a point

Markus Opens the Negotiations

It's finally lunchtime and Markus and Louis meet as planned. Markus offers for Louis to speak first, but Louis declines: Markus: Thanks again for agreeing to meet today. I really appreciate you taking the time during your lunch. Louis: Okay, well, let's get started. I'd like to resolve this as soon as possible so we can get back to work. Markus: Great. Okay, well, if there's anything you'd like to say first, please be my guest. Louis: Oh, no, I insist you go first. After all, you're the one who asked to meet with me. Markus: Very well then. First of all I want you to know that I am fully aware of the challenges you have faced in running this company in the last few years. I understand that the poor weather last year ended up costing you and all of the local landscape companies a lot of money. However, I think you realize that I am unsatisfied with my current salary. I've been with Landscape labourers for 5 years now and there have been many other years that were profitable. Despite how much your business has grown, I'm making less than a dollar more than I was the day I started. Louis: You're lucky to have a job in these times. Markus: Yes, and I'm very thankful that you have employed me all this time, especially during the slow seasons when the company is struggling to make a profit. It means a lot to me to have that stability, which is why I have remained loyal to your company. Louis: You haven't had much choice but to remain loyal, Markus. There are no jobs out there. Markus: Well if you don't mind, I'd like to finish what I have to say and then you can let me know what your position is. As a matter of fact, there are a few companies hiring right now in our area. These are not all necessarily companies that I would be interested in working with. For example, you and I both know that I would never want to work for a company such as Powell Designs. I'd much prefer to be associated with a company like Landscape Labourers because we do a good job. Having said that, I took the liberty of calling a few other local companies to find out what type of salary packages they offer to their foremen. Louis: Foremen? I don't have a foreman. I never have. It's not my style. Don't forget, you're a contract labourer just like the rest of the crew. Markus: Yes, I thank you for bringing that up. Besides deserving a higher salary, one that is competitive with local companies, I also think that I deserve a new title. You and I both know that the crew looks to me as though I am a foreman, even though I don't have the title. Louis: You don't have the title, but you also don't have the responsibility. It's a lot of work being a foreman. Markus: Exactly. And you can't say that you haven't noticed me coming in earlier than the others and leaving later. I also designate jobs to all of the crew members each morning and call suppliers when needs arise. These are duties of a foreman, am I right? Louis: I suppose. But a foreman also helps solve conflicts that arise within a team, and deals with customer complaints. You always pass those things on to me. Markus: I agree with you on that. However, I would be willing to take on these extra responsiblities, should you offer me a foreman position at a rate of $25.00 per hour.